I want to explore the reasons why we fall in love. That mystical event that occurs when we inexplicably connect with another human being. That connection that has the potential to last a lifetime or it has the potential to explode into chaos and dissolve into the abyss. It can cause some of theworst pain and some of the best pleasures a human being can endure. As always with the topics of this newsletter, it also causes struggle and that struggle must be endured for long-lasting love. Without struggle, a couple of humans cannot remain connected in this way. Love requires conflict, pain and struggle but this brings with it pleasure, love and growth.